~A good lesson to everyone~

从前，有一个脾气很坏的男孩. 他的爸爸给了他一袋钉子，告诉他，每次发脾气或者跟人吵架的时候，就在院子的篱笆上钉一根。第一天，男孩钉了37根钉子。后面的几天他学会了控制自己的脾 气，每天钉的钉子也逐渐减少了。他发现，控制自己的脾气，实际上比钉钉子要容易的多。终于有一天，他一根钉子都没有钉，他高兴的把这件事告诉了爸爸。爸爸说：" 从今以后，如果你一天都没有发脾气，就可以在这天拔掉一根钉子." 日子一天一天过去，最后，钉子全被拔光了。爸爸带他来到篱笆边上，对他说："儿子，你做得很好，可是看看篱笆上的钉子洞，这些洞永远也不可能恢复了。就象 你和一个人吵架，说了些难听的话，你就在他心里留下了一个伤口，像这个钉子洞一样。"

插一把刀子在一个人的身体里，再拔出来，伤口就难以愈合了。无论你怎么道歉，伤口总是在那儿。要知道，身体上的伤口和心灵上的伤口一样都难以恢复。你的朋友是你宝贵的财产，他们让你开怀，让你更勇敢。他们总是随时倾听你的忧伤。你需要他们的时候，他们会支持你。所以，千万别让身边的朋友受到伤害了。

Once upon a time, there was a little boy with bad temper. One day, his father gave him a bag of nails and told him, "Everytime you feel like losing temper or fighting with someone, nail on the fence in the garden." On the first day, the boy nailed 37 nails on the fence. Soon he learnt to control his temper and the number of nails reduces day by day. One day, he didn't nail even one nail on the fence. He happily told his father about this. His father said, "From now on, every one day you didn't lose your temper, you can remove one nail from the fence." Day and day passes. Finally, all the nails had been removed from the fence. The boy's father brought him to the front of fence and said, "Great job son! But take a look on the fence, the holes on the fence will be there forever. Just like when you argued with someone, and you said something bad that hurts him/her, there will be a wound that stays in the heart forever, just like these holes."

When you stabbed someone with a knife and pulled it out, the wound will be very hard to recover. No matter how you apologize, the wound will still be there. Physical wound and wound in the heart is the same, as they are both hard to recover. Friends are your most precious treasure, they make you happy and give you courage. They will always listen to you and support you whenever you need them. Therefore, never ever try to hurt your friends.

~HuaiHuai~